Money Moves In Your 20’s

My 20’s have been full of so many amazing experiences! Many ups, and a fair share of downs too, but I am  grateful to God for the lessons learned. I am always ready to share my life nuggets with you!  Please sit back and enjoy! Remember to share the video!

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Road to Celibacy (Video)

Hello my lovely friends!

I hope you’re all doing well! For those affected by Hurricane Harvey and Irma, I sympathize with how sad and depressed you feel. I am sorry that you had to go through that. I pray God restores you to wholeness!

I recently had a sit down with  with my friend, Ashley Dixon, owner of TheBookOfAshley We thoroughly enjoyed the conversation! She walks me through her decision to have sex, and how five years after, and certain unpleasant events, that same decision morphed into a choice to be celibate.

In the beginning, it was not a spiritual journey for her, but it has soon evolved into an important part of her walk with Christ as the body and the spirit are very connected! She is now a staunch advocate for waiting till marriage before introducing sex to a relationship.

I really enjoy your kind comments and encouragement as I take on this journey of walking in my purpose! I am here for you! Please always reach out to talk, a word of prayer, comments, or any questions you think I may be of help in answering!

I truly LOVE YOU ALL!! Please remember to SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel! Your subscription truly makes a difference!! Also remember to turn on the notifications to ensure you see my new videos!

No matter what horrible choices you have made, God is, and will always be so interested in your life!

22 Series Talk 1 – Buying A $150k House At 22!!

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I hope you are doing well! I had the pleasure of sitting down with my beautiful friend, Azhia Brown, who was gracious enough to share the journey of the purchase of her first home at the age of 22!

The 22 Series is a project I am working on to shine the light on millennials who are making waves in different areas of their lives! I hope you are inspired and encouraged to shoot for the stars!

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I love you! Enjoy labor day weekend! I am spending mine in Cuba! Let me know if you want a video of my trip!

Cheers! xo.

Virginity, Living Together Before Marriage, Age Difference and More!! (Video)

Hello people! Hope you are well!

I asked my social media followers to let me know topics they would like me to address. The consensus landed on sex and relationships. A few months back, I addressed sex, purity and virginity on a blogpost here. But people always seem to need some clarification on the topic, so I happily accepted the request to address these issues in my video.

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Why I Quit My Job To Pursue My Passion (Video)

First and foremost, THANK YOU! I truly appreciate you for taking this journey with me. I started my blog in May 2015, with one goal. I wanted my work to positively influence at least one person! I’m glad to say this goal has been exceeded, all thanks to God and you!

Over the years, I have shared various milestones with you – Successful internships, graduation with an honors in accounting, amazing trips across the world, landing a ‘good job,’ leaving said job, exploring a new field, and now, taking my passion for communication and a ‘good ol’ chat’ to the video scene.

I am so excited to now present to you, Oreofetalks videos! I am hosting them on YouTube. Please watch, like, leave a comment, tell me something I can do better, subscribe to my YouTube channel and share the video!

Just like the blogs, the videos will go live on Thursdays, I am still working on the time frame that works best. Please connect with me on all social media. I look forward to taking this exciting new journey with you!

 

Communicate with me, Partner!

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Effective/ great/ good communication in our romantic relationships are non-negotiable. It needs to exist as the foundation for a healthy relationship.
I asked around about communication in relationships… let’s delve in!

Female 1:
Constant communication is what makes a relationship easy. It is what establishes trust because you can talk about any and everything. If your partner is not communicating with you it must be the underlying cause of a different issue. Some partners may be shy and It may take a while for them to open up. When marriage becomes a topic, there should be no boundaries or shyness. I personally would not marry someone who couldn’t communicate his thoughts with me or lacked the initiative to check on me every few hours.

Male 1:
From my experience being in a long distance relationship, one absolute no-no is “assuming your partner knows you have had a busy day and wouldn’t mind if you didn’t talk or check in with her for a day.”
“Never assume that your partner automatically knows how you feel. Especially if you’re not okay with something he/she did.” If you don’t communicate, your partner may not even know you’re upset.
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One love… Two Receivers?

Screen Shot 2015-11-18 at 3.21.38 PMLive in the now. Tomorrow is far away. If you love someone, say so. The repercussions of holding your breath are usually not worth it.

Dele and Halima go way back… way back to a time of purity, innocence and child-like love. Dele always liked Halima, but never said so. Halima was a free bird. Hard to pin down. She was very much aware of the emotions from Dele, but she was not going to say a word, and they were babies.

You see, there’s this thing about love, love does not respect your boundaries. Love does not care if you’re ready, or not. You think love addresses age? No… You can find love at 2, or 10, maybe 22, could be 58, or even 83… There is no set age for love. I can only hope and pray that if you’re old enough to read and understand this write-up, you have at one point, or currently are experiencing love. Love is stronger than death. It consumes your being.

Now, would this love, romantically, be possible to be felt by one person for two individuals? Have we ever really thought about polygamy? How do people come to terms with ‘sharing their love?’

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